Hey, everybody! This is Steve, and lots of new viewers have been asking us to explain what exactly it means to "be the bee." To answer that, I need to suit up.
Bees are really amazing creatures. They live together in complex societies and play a very important role in nature, pollinating flowers, and making a lot of the food we eat possible. "Be the bee" is an awesome metaphor that goes back at least to St. Basil the Great, who used it to answer a difficult question people had. People wondered whether it was okay for Christians to read books by non-Christians. There was a theory that reading books by pagans, like Homer's Iliad or Plato's Republic, would compromise one's Christianity and lead one astray. That's where St. Basil jumped in with "be the bee." 
In his Address to Young Men on the Right Use of Greek Literature, St. Basil suggested that we approach non-Christian works like bees approach flowers. Just like bees only take the good nectar from flowers, we should only take the good from whatever situation in which we find ourselves, and leave the rest behind.
St. John Chrysostom took things a step further when he explained the reason that bees work so hard to collect the good nectar. "The bee is more honored than other animals, not because she labors but because she labors for others." Bees are part of a hive, a wider community, where they all work with and for each other. And it isn't just other bees that benefit; we also benefit from the labors of a hard-working bee. 
So being the bee is about taking what's good out of every situation and sharing it with others. And it goes even deeper than that, right to the heart of what it means to be a Christian. Elder Paisios of Mount Athos, a 20th-century saint, pointed at this when he used the metaphor. Here's what he said about being the bee: 
When a bee is found in a roomful of dirt and there is a small piece of sweet in a corner, it will ignore the dirt and will go to sit on top of the sweet. Now, if we ask the bee to show us where the garbage is, it will answer, "I don't know. I can only tell you where to find flowers, sweets, honey, and sugar." It only knows the good things in life and is ignorant of all evil. While a fly is drawn to disgusting things, to garbage and filth, a bee is drawn to what's sweet and beautiful, and won't even pay any attention to the dirt.